Alana Sanborn

NARCISSISTIC ABUSE RECOVERY COACH

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TIPS AND TIDBITS TO HELP YOU DEAL WITH THE NARCISSIST IN YOUR LIFE

Having a narcissistic person in your life can be a living hell. Whether they are a spouse, a parent, a cousin, a coworker or a friend, they make you feel tangled up inside and like you are living in a trap.

These five pieces of wisdom can help you navigate these relationships, because understanding how this person operates and how to deal with it is key for your survival.

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Book Recs

This list is evolving and will grow! Check back later for more recommendations.

There is Nothing Wrong with You

Don't let the cutesy drawings in this book fool you—it will blow you away with its profundity. 
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My Grandmother's Hands

Beautiful and honest book about racialized trauma. Provides actual exercises to encourage healing.
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The Book of Awakening

This is a daily read, full of short and powerful stories for each day. You will be amazed at how much they fit for you when you least expect it.
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Out of the Fog

A super helpful book for when you are waking up from the spell of a narcissistic person, and trying to figure out what's real and what's a lie in your life.
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Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents

I know way too many people who have needed and relied on this book! That's because it's far more common than you think to realize in adulthood that your parents were not equipped to be healthy parents. This book can help you reconcile that and understand it better.
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Attached

This is a daily read, full of short and powerful stories for each day. You will be amazed at how much they fit for you when you least expect it.
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Co-Parenting with a Toxic Ex

It is rare that you will be able actually "co-parent" with a narcissistic ex. At best, most of you will be "parallel parenting" with them. This book still contains some handy tips for the most common struggles and some methods for regulating your emotions during challenging interactions.
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Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People

Educational for folks who have narcissistic and/or emotionally immature people in their lives, and has some helpful prompts for changing toxic dynamics.
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Mindfulness

If you're like me, and you shiver or roll your eyes when you hear the word mindfulness used, this book is actually for you. Ms. Langer has a different take on mindfulness than you've probably heard before, and she makes it a digestible and doable exercise. Being mindful, being present, can help you in your process of healing from narcissistic abuse.
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