Alana Sanborn

TL;DR ABOUT ME

I AM ...

  • HAPPIEST AT THE LIBRARY
  • ACTIVELY ENGAGED IN ANTI- RACISM INNER & OUTER WORK
  • NOT A FAN OF THE PATRIARCHY
  • GENDERQUEER
  • INTO HEALTH AT EVERY SIZE
  • A FORMER ART THERAPIST 
  • OBSESSED WITH GARDENING
  • A CERTIFIED WEIRDO
  • SHE/HER
  • PANSEXUAL
  • A PHOTOGRAPHER
  • A LOVER OF TETRIS & GALAGA
  • A NARC ABUSE SURVIVOR
  • ALL ABOUT SILLY PUNS
  • A VISUAL THINKER
  • A DANCER
  • SIMULTANEOUSLY CYNICAL AND HOPEFUL

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IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT

THE NARCISSIST CHOSE YOU

Sure, it's important to ask "why," but it's not the best question to start with. Let's get you on the path to recovery and then, when you're really ready, we can explore how this happened.

I know what it’s like to be hurt badly, and publicly, by a narcissist. I know what it’s like to bloom after a downpour. I know what it’s like to unearth into my own unique self and find true freedom after losing everything.

My unfortunate (but illuminating) relationships with narcissistic folks + my training in counseling/psychology + my years of working with clients who have been impacted by narcissistic people makes me really adept at helping you deal with your own version of this special hell.


People with narcissistic tendencies are on a spectrum, and I've seen the worst of what that spectrum entails. Especially when there are children involved, or you are the child of a narcissistic person.

In our work together, I aim to help you remember your own fierceness, learn which boundaries feel right to you, and get you reconnected to your gut instincts. I guarantee you, your gut is always right on​—you've just been conditioned to ignore it and be full of self-doubt.

Let's abolish that self-doubt, banish the confusion, and reconnect you with the strong-willed person I know is in you right now.
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